How To Touch A Girl

 

This is actually a simple ‘tips and tricks’ for a guy in order to learn how to touch a girl. Every guy can have a girlfriend, but it takes a real man to treat his girlfriend right. So you've got the girl of your dreams, but how do you keep her? Girls like a guy who is mature and absolutely adores her. This guideline explains how to be the 'Mr Right' she is looking for, without changing yourself. let's have a try ^_^

1. Become A Good Listener
• Ask questions about the things she says. Show that you’re listening actively, not passively.
• Avoid interrupting her. (Of course, sometimes what you have to say can't wait. If this happens, just make sure to return to the subject she was on.)
• Don’t answer non-essential calls while talking to her. Similarly, if she’s talking on the phone with you, avoid switching lines.
• If she has just told you a deep personal secret, don't switch topics. She has just confided in you and probably wants you to confide in her.
2. Share things that define you.

Self-disclosure is essential to bonding and has been shown to promote happy relationships.

• Talk with her about your hopes, dreams and fears. Make sure the depth of these discussions is appropriate for the level of your relationship.
• Talk about your favorite songs, movies, books, and memories. These seemingly little things play a big role in forming an emotional connection.
• Be sure to both listen and share; self-disclosure is a two-way street.
2. Be worthy of her trust.

There’s a reason we say that trust is “earned.”

• Do not show romantic interest in her friends. Not even a single one of them.
• Always tell the truth, even if it hurts. Getting caught in a lie is much, much worse than fessing up to something unpleasant.
• Be as good as your word. This doesn’t just mean keeping a big promise every now and then; it means doing the dishes or picking up those socks like you said you would.
3. Make your enthusiasm contagious.

Everyone loves to be around a positive person.

• Show that you're genuinely glad to see her. If your usual first reaction isn't a smile, there may be something wrong with the relationship.
• If you're just having a bad day, put it aside and grin.
• Laugh at her jokes; everyone likes to think that they're funny. (If they're not funny and you're not good at faking, just smile; a fake laugh is much worse than no laugh at all.)
• Make an extra effort to cheer her up when she’s down. If she’s going through something, talk her through it. If she just has a case of the doldrums, get her out of her rut with something fun and spontaneous.
4. Don’t pressure her romantically

There’s nothing sexy about reluctant sex.

• If she seems hesitant, back off - even if she doesn't say anything. She may need more time to feel comfortable.
• Don’t put out the wrong vibes. If she senses that you’re impatient, she may grow distant -- or worse yet, do something she regrets.
• Remember that no means no. Even if you’ve been together for years, it’s her body and she’s under no obligation to share it with you.
• If she's an abuse survivor or something along those lines, that's a different situation entirely. Get her to talk to someone if she's not already.
5. Know when to give her space.

Women are just as turned off by neediness as men.

• Have a life of your own. A confident, independent person will never lack admirers.
• Don't force-feed a budding relationship with too much affection. This is unhealthy and will raise red flags.
6. Learn how to fight.

Knowing how to keep your head in a fight will make it productive instead of destructive. And as much as you may want to avoid confrontation, it’s far healthier to fight than to sweep things under the mat.

• Don't just change the subject when a fight is brewing. Forcing the conversation elsewhere will just create resentment.
• If she’s really mad, give her a cooling period, then offer to work it out. Never forget to come back to the argument later or you will come off as evasive and/or uninterested.
• Admit when you're wrong. Without humility, you will never learn from your mistakes.
• Don't use an apology as a tool for ending an argument. This is manipulative and unproductive.
• If you really messed up, you might want to plan a special date to apologize.

8.      If you believe she is "Ms. Right," than she should be your number one priority!

You should care for her as you care for yourself. If your girlfriend is indeed Ms. Right, she will do the same for you.

9.      If you never understand women in general, how will you understand your girl? Women are very maternal creatures: they love taking care of things. That's why she cooks you great meals, or worries when you don't call after you've driven home. Understand that she is not being clingy; it is a natural part of being a woman, and therefore part of who she is. Perceive it as a good thing; women are only inclined to do this if they genuinely love and care about you a great deal. If she has stopped doing these things, there's something wrong! Remember also that women have been raised around stories that end in girls finding the 'Perfect Man', become a Princess and live happily ever after. Therefore, it is ingrained into their subconsciousness that they must find a man who is perfect in every way. While this is basically impossible, this article will help you understand what will make her happy, without changing your own personality.

10.  Tell her you love her and tell her she's beautiful and mean it.

Compliment her not only on her looks, but also on her accomplishments, talents and abilities. Always be sincere.

11.  Be confident.

Be proud of being her boyfriend. There are appropriate times and places for affection. Kissing and intimate touching does not usually go over well in public. But don't be too shy to hold her hand in public because you shouldn't be ashamed that she's yours. She will love it when you walk by her friends and they see how good her boy friend is.

12.  Never lie.

Lies mean trouble. This can taint your relationship and reduce her trust in you considerably. How would you feel if she started to lie to you?

13.  Do not argue in public and cause a scene.

This will humiliate her or you and she'll think twice about going out with you again. Similarly, If you and your girl have an argument, don't do or say things to her that are mean and spiteful. That will make her know your inner self, and don't you want to be her Mr. Right?

14.  If you're with your friends, never ignore her and start talking with your friends or walk off with them as if she's not there.

How would you feel if she did this to you? Invisible? Make sure you pay attention to her when you're with your friends. Think about it - she's a friend too. Girl-friend. If you're with a group of mates, make sure she doesn't feel left out if she doesn't know them well. Keep close to her or glance at her every so often just to let her know you know she's still there and offer a genuine smile.

15.  Be thoughtful.

The small things matter the most. Be a gentleman; hold doors open for her, be polite and be helpful. Ask her if she's cold when it's cold out; have a jacket or a sweater handy so you can give it to her, but don't outdo it, it won't look sincere. When she isn't feeling well, or home sick bring her some soup, hot tea or flowers. Hold her hand at the movies or when you're walking. Get her something just because. Make her happy by buying her little gifts. Small things like a single flower or a magazine you know she likes, a bag of her favorite candy or a chocolate bar will go a long way. Girls love that.

16.  Remember important dates.

This is a big deal with women. Birthdays, anniversaries and other milestones are all opportunities to show her how special she is to you. Keep an agenda or a calendar with all these dates. When it's her birthday, bring her breakfast in bed and some flowers. When it's your anniversary, book something special for you both to let her know how much you appreciate and love her. Remember that women have the idea of being spoiled on these occasions embedded into their psyche from the media. Rose petals on your bed, dinner at a beautiful restaurant - all these things show you care. You don't have to spend like crazy - it isn't about the money but the thought behind the action.

17.  Remember what she likes and dislikes.

How does she like her eggs cooked? What is her favorite flower? Perfume? What does she enjoy doing when it comes to dates? She will be very impressed that you have been paying attention. It pays to be thoughtful.

18.  Touch her regularly and on the spur of the moment!

Even the slightest touch can make a woman feel special. Hold her hand, give her a hug or gently touch her face; these gestures will all make her feel protected and loved!

19.  Write her love notes.

They don't have to be long, mushy and poetic if you're not the type, even quick and silly ones will do but try to make them cute (add some related drawing) and show her that you care. This is a great way to be romantic. Tell her that you're lucky that you found her. She loves it when you say it. Just be sure you mean it. Look her in the eye and mentally say it.

20.  Every woman loves a bit of alone time with her partner.

Book a whole day for the two of you to be alone. Watch a movie at home, massage her back, snuggle and be intimate. She will love you for it.

21.  Share your everyday events and thoughts with your girl.

Being open and communicative makes her feel like you want her in your life. On the same note, listen to her advice even if you don't agree, force yourself to listen and to see the good of her reasoning. Keep an open ear and an open mind.

22.  If you want her to be yours forever, let her know you're there for her when she needs you, and most importantly make her feel loved, special, safe and protected.

Your woman wants to be your queen so treat her as such and you'll glide happily along.

23.  If she wants to pay for something sometimes, let her.

Just ensure you don't change roles, you're the man.

24.  Make sure you spend enough time with her to show her how much you care, and to make your relationship grow.

25.  With some girls, it is a good idea to text or call her regularly before you go to sleep and regularly in the morning when you wake up.

It will make her feel special. However, tread carefully, this can be mistaken for stalking

26.  Understand that little things mean a lot!

A love note, rose, sweet text message or things like this just to let her know you are thinking of her and care for her.

27.  Gifts don't need reasons to be given.

Give your girlfriend gifts on normal days. If you have no idea what gift to be given, send her an affectionate letter or card.

28.  Girls are not things, and don't like to be treated like objects.

Avoid being too possessive of them or treating them with less affection or respect than they deserve. If she is special to you, then prove it, unconditionally.

29.  When you see her talk with other men DO NOT FREAK OUT!

Your cool headed demeanor will show her that you trust her and respect her. Remind yourself that the presence of other men will only make you look better in her eyes. Yes, you know what they are after, and yes, it makes you mad, but she also knows what they are after, and seeing you not freak out over it will show her you trust her. OTHER MEN MAKE YOU LOOK BETTER!!!

30.  One of the most important things to remember is to let her be herself and be free. The harder you pull her towards you the more she will push away.